This Custom Life

100% solo mom of 2. sober, faith-led, figuring it out out loud. building a community for solo parents so none of us carry this alone.

Welcome to Awakened Survivor You aren’t crazy. You weren’t “too sensitive.” And you weren’t imagining it. If you have escaped a narcissistic relationship but still feel completely drained, physically exhausted, or strangely connected to the narcissist long after going no contact - you're in the right place. Traditional psychology often focuses entirely on personality traits and childhood wounds. While those clinical labels are incredibly helpful for understanding their behavior, they often miss the deep, systemic toll the relationship takes on your well-being. This channel explores the unseen, spiritual dimension of narcissistic abuse that many survivors feel is missing from mainstream advice. We dive deep into the actual mechanics of the energy drain, how a predator bypasses your personal boundaries by acting as a "gift," and why cognitive tools alone can leave you feeling stuck in the healing loop for months or years. My mission is to help you move past the exhausting cycle of over-analysis so you can safely clear the residual static, close the energetic backdoors, and fully reclaim your sovereign life.

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I'm your friendly home herbalist, fertility educator, large family mom and sister in Christ. I'll be sharing herbal remedies, Biblical encouragement, holistic women's health advice and more.

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